Today we look at the central icon of Christmas: the crib of Bethlehem, with Mary and Joseph gathered around the Child Jesus. This is not an image of the Trinity, but of a family. When God came among us, He chose the most natural mode of human existence—a family. The family is the most important community to which we can ever belong.
Our first reading is a commentary on the Fourth Commandment, which calls us to honor our parents. Often, this commandment is understood mainly as the obligation of children—especially young ones—to obey their parents. However, the reading goes beyond this and highlights another important responsibility, especially for adult children: to ensure that their aged parents live their final years in comfort and dignity.
“My son, take care of your father when he is old. Even if his mind fails, be considerate of him. Kindness to a father will not be forgotten.” It is easy to neglect the weak in our society, even within our own families. Yet kindness to parents is pleasing to God, for He accepts it as atonement for one’s sins.
As we continue to meditate on the Holy Family, Saint Paul speaks about the atmosphere that should reign in a Christian family. This harmony does not depend solely on the obedience of children, but on the mutual responsibility of all family members. When virtues such as kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, and love are practiced, harmony flourishes. These virtues are not easy to live out, but when practiced consistently, they bring great rewards—peace and unity in our homes. Parents, in particular, are called to love their children, for this is the greatest gift they can give them.
In the Gospel, the primary obligation of parents—to love and protect their children—is presented to us in a very concrete way through the Holy Family. We see how Mary and Joseph acted decisively to ensure the safety of the Child Jesus. As soon as they learned that His life was in danger, they uprooted themselves and went into exile. When the danger had passed, they returned to their homeland.
The Holy Family experienced both joyful and difficult moments, just as our families do today. Yet through their deep faith in God and their love for one another, they remained united and overcame their trials. Let us, therefore, strive to build our families on the bonds of commitment, fidelity, and self-sacrifice.
Scripture Readings:
Sir 3:2–6, 12–14 • Col 3:12–21 • Mt 2:13–15, 19–23